Becoming.
A Journey of Commitment, Growth, and Faith
The moment the pastor mentioned “Do you take this woman”, the realization of knowing there’s a raw truth about commitment—it demands more than intention; it demands action. Over the years, I've realized that excuses are easy, but they are the enemy of growth. When I set out to achieve something, whether in my relationships, career, or personal life, I can’t just dabble. I have to dive in, fully immerse myself, and that requires time and undivided attention.
In personal development, commitment is the cornerstone. Whether striving for mental, physical, or financial growth, true progress requires dedicated effort, free of excuses. We must hold ourselves accountable, embracing responsibility for our shortcomings instead of shifting blame.
Commitment Demands Time and Attention
Commitment isn’t passive—it requires daily intention. Whether building relationships, advancing careers, or developing personal goals, time and attention must be consistently invested. Excuses and distractions lead to failure. For example, a farmer can’t neglect his land and expect a bountiful harvest. Similarly, without intentional focus, we risk missing out on our desired outcomes.
But commitment also involves self-reflection. Sometimes, we are unaware of how our emotional behaviors affect our goals. By inviting feedback from trusted friends, we gain insight into how we react to pressure and handle conflict, revealing blind spots. This honest feedback can unlock greater emotional maturity and deepen our commitment.
Mental Awareness and Physical Attraction
Being present mentally creates the path for deeper relationships. Mental awareness is more powerful than physical appearance because it builds trust, understanding, and connection. When we are attentive and emotionally present, we naturally attract others.
The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.
Proverbs 21:5
Reflection of Values and Priorities
Our financial habits are an extension of our commitment to personal and professional goals. Are we impulsive with our spending, or do we invest strategically in our future? Financial behaviors reflect values and discipline. Biblical wisdom, such as Proverbs 21:5, teaches that diligent planning leads to abundance, while hastiness results in poverty. Financial responsibility plays a crucial role in achieving our goals.
Incorporating Biblical Wisdom
Proverbs 16:3 reminds us to “commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” When we align our goals with God’s purpose, success follows. Inviting God into our plans provides clarity, wisdom, and direction. With His guidance, we can better understand our unique talents and calling. Biblical commitment offers a stronger foundation than relying on our own willpower—it invites faithfulness, discipline, and consistency rooted in trust in God’s promises.
The Power of Accountability
Holding ourselves accountable for our behaviors and decisions is key to long-term growth. Ownership leads to empowerment, allowing us to correct our mistakes and take control of our future. By placing blame on others, we hinder our progress. In contrast, taking responsibility builds character and fosters personal development.
4 Steps to Strengthen Commitment
Set clear goals: Define what you want to achieve.
Develop a plan: Break goals into manageable steps.
Seek God’s guidance: Pray for wisdom and direction.
Trust God’s faithfulness: Remember that He keeps His promises.
Commitment is an ongoing journey. By combining biblical principles with self-discipline, mental awareness, and financial responsibility, we create a solid foundation for personal growth. Trust in God’s guidance, embrace accountability, and remain steadfast in your pursuit of growth. Your efforts, guided by divine wisdom, will yield lasting success and fulfillment. As Proverbs 16:3 promises, when you commit your work to the Lord, your plans will indeed be established.
J. Daniel Rivera
A father of 10 children who is passionate about faith and family, and who also loves cooking, writing, and traveling. Focused on building a life centered on the '4 pillars': family, finance, faith, and health. Bienvenidos!
